1 - You must accept that most of life is unknown. You are not in control and you never will be.
2 - You must cultivate a healthy relationship with the unknown. You can do this by developing a philosophical or spiritual practice.
3 - You must be aware that you are in a state of momentum and learn how to shift momentum.
4 - Love is the nourishment that makes all great things great. Our habit is to deny ourselves love before things are great already, but that's not the way.